
Collective Brilliance
CxOs acting as individuals, not a team—the drag that strategy can’t fix.
Imagine
A C-suite that moves as one—decisively, intuitively—through uncertainty.
A team that prioritizes enterprise momentum over functional wins.
The steady strength of hard-earned alignment—no resistance. Pure flow.

Our retreats unlock the humility, integrative thinking, and shared ownership already emerging at midlife—qualities no playbook can teach, but every enterprise needs.
When the C-suite truly aligns, everything moves.
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From silos to strategic momentum.
At a leading Southeast Asian bank, our retreat series unlocked full alignment in the C-suite—fueling an 80% stock surge within two years.
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From post-merger drift to game-changing focus.
At a digital insurer, our work post-merger unified a fragmented C-suite, driving clarity, seamless execution, and a successful acquisition.
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Global research confirms it.
Aligned executive teams don’t just perform better—they outperform. Bain & McKinsey research shows they achieve 3X stronger business results and dramatically higher employee engagement.
Why most executive teams never become teams.
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80% Lack shared ownership and collective accountability.
(Leadership IQ)
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65% Struggle to prioritize the enterprise over their own function.
(Center for Creative Leadership)
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Only 18% of leaders rate their executive teams as ‘very effective.’
(Center for Creative Leadership)
Leadership changes at midlife. Most programs don’t.
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It’s not a skills gap—it’s a shift in what leadership requires.
At this level, it’s less about control and depth—more about connection, breadth, and letting go of what once worked.
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Most programs build skills. We work with the stage of life.
Midlife brings a quiet emergence: humility, pattern recognition, shared ownership. It’s already happening—like parenting a young adult: you still guide, but you lead by letting go. Our work makes that emergence conscious, collective, and catalytic.
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We tap the same energy that can spark a midlife crisis—and redirect it.
What begins as uncertainty becomes momentum. Isolation turns into alignment. (Minus the red sports car or Harley—unless you’ve already got one —in which case, excellent choice.)
What seasoned leaders say—after everything shifts.
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"Even though it was a tough few days, the results were transformational and set us on a path which has been successful and which is still working very well for us 18 months later."
Bill Maldonado, CEO, Eastspring Investments
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“Cultivates in individuals and teams a lasting sense of empowerment, resilience, and confidence; inspires collective insights. Profoundly impacted my way of working, thinking, and being.”
Aarti Ramaswami, Dean, ESSEC Business School
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"The relentless focus on product, revenue, growth... had blinded us to the fact that our amazing people had built the best asset of all, a great team. Quite literally re-created our company!"
Terence Lyons, CEO, The Stakeholder Company
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"It is transformative. Not an epiphany. A subtle discernment."
Mathilde Swierczynska, MD, Compliance, UBP - Union Bancaire Privée
Reveal
Even the strongest C-suites can feel misaligned—without knowing why.
Trust is there, but momentum stalls. Something’s off, and no one can name it.
Reveal what’s quietly emerging beneath the surface—and turn your executive team into your greatest strategic advantage.

The Emergence Indicator™ reveals the invisible patterns shaping C-suite performance.
What your C-suite feels—but can’t quite name.
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Why It Matters.
Even the most capable C-suites can stall—without knowing why.
The room is full of talent, yet strategy drags.
Conversations stay polite. Risks surface too late.
Accountability fades at the edges.
This isn’t dysfunction.
It’s drift—slow, invisible, and costly.
A quiet erosion of alignment, ownership, and enterprise momentum.
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What It Unlocks.
The Emergence Indicator™ surfaces the hidden patterns behind that drift—so tension rises, truth lands, and energy flows again.
It’s built on a simple truth: at midlife, leadership begins to shift—naturally, quietly, powerfully.
Humility. Pattern recognition. Long-range perspective.
Already emerging in individuals—often without notice.
This diagnostic helps that shift take form at the team level—where it matters most.
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When to Use It.
Before a strategic offsite.
Ahead of a major pivot.
Or when something feels off—but no one can name what.
The Emergence Indicator™ meets that moment with calm precision—making visible what’s already beginning to change.
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How It Works.
Each executive completes a brief online reflection and a one-on-one conversation.
Findings are distilled into a clear, visual report—mapping the team across five essential C-suite dynamics:
Collective Leadership – Do we lead as one when it matters most?
Enterprise Ownership – Do we put the whole ahead of our part?
Unfiltered Conversations – Do we speak the hard truths, early and often?
Decisive Execution – Do we move together—clearly and with resolve?
Adaptive Capacity – Do we reshape ourselves fast enough to meet what’s next?
Curious what this looks like in real life?
Download a full, anonymized Emergence Indicator™ report—based on real data from a C-suite team navigating trust, alignment, and enterprise ownership.
Unleash
When clarity rises, drag disappears.
When trust runs deep, speed follows.
When every voice plays its part, the team becomes unstoppable.
This isn’t just alignment—it’s the beginning of a team that leads as one.
From insight to the habit of enterprise leadership—one retreat at a time.
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Retreat 1—Connect as One.
Establish the trust and cohesion to lead as one—by surfacing what’s unspoken, resolving invisible tensions, and forging the foundation for strategic alignment.
(Ideal Location: Capella Singapore—A private sanctuary for honest dialogue and meaningful connection.)
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Retreat 2—Expand Ownership.
Move beyond silos and into full enterprise leadership—where every CxO holds responsibility for the whole, not just their part.
(Ideal Location: Soma, Byron Bay—A purposeful setting for bold thinking and shared accountability.)
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Retreat 3—Unlock Synergy.
Transform parallel leaders into a unified force—blending diverse strengths into clear decisions and elevated performance.
(Ideal Location: Cempedak Private Island—A creative, off-the-grid space to deepen collaboration and energize direction.)
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Retreat 4—Cascade Excellence.
Embed the shift—so trust, alignment, and ownership ripple through the next layers of leadership, shaping a culture that lasts.
(Ideal Location: Amanoi, Vinh Hy Bay—A setting that mirrors the excellence your team now models.)

No projectors. No laptops. Just space for what matters.
The Foundations
Midlife sparks a quiet but profound shift in how we relate, decide, and carry responsibility.
Most leadership programs overlook this entirely.
These are the foundations that make midlife the most powerful, natural stage of leadership growth.

We work from a simple premise: leadership’s deepest potential isn’t taught—it’s revealed. And midlife is when it begins to surface.
The shift no leadership model accounted for.
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The Leadership Gap No One Talks About.
Jim Collins called it Level 5 Leadership: humility fused with fierce resolve—traits he believed couldn’t be taught.
Robert Kegan described the “Self-Transforming Mind,” a stage of deep perspective and complexity of thought—claiming that only 1% of adults ever reach it.
But how could anyone truly know that? And who decides who makes the cut?
At Aramyss, we’ve found something far more grounded: at midlife, many leaders begin to experience exactly these shifts—not through effort or achievement, but through change that life itself delivers.
The irony? Those who seem closest to that stage are usually too humble to say so.
We believe midlife doesn’t disqualify most leaders from these capacities—it quietly initiates them.
(Interestingly, both Collins and Kegan formed their models before reaching midlife themselves.)
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Midlife’s Winds of Change.
Midlife doesn’t announce itself with a curriculum.
It arrives through converging forces—physiological, neurological, and parental—that quietly reshape how leaders think, feel, and respond.
We call them the Winds of Change.
Left unexamined, they can push even seasoned leaders toward crisis or confusion.
But when understood and embraced, they become a natural source of strength: deeper calm, sharper discernment, and a renewed desire to serve something larger than self.
At Aramyss, we help C-suites tap into these shifts together—so what’s changing in each leader becomes the momentum of the whole.
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Leading Through Quiet Conviction.
At the center of our work is something we call Radically Empowering Presence—a way of leading that replaces instruction with trust, and control with quiet conviction.
We don’t teach or advise.
We create space where seasoned leaders rise into a deeper kind of leadership—one marked by humility, presence, and the courage to let others lead with them.
Insights and resources.
Meet the guides.
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Aneace Haddad
A pioneer in the emerging field of midlife leadership development, Aneace helps senior executive teams shift from individual expertise to collective impact. With over 40 years of experience—including roles as a tech CEO and McKinsey Senior Advisor—he brings a global perspective on how midlife shapes leadership performance. His book, Soaring Beyond Midlife, explores the physiological, neurological, and parental changes that unlock leadership potential. Based in Singapore, he works with C-suite teams worldwide.
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Malti Bhojwani
Malti is an executive coach and team facilitator with over 20 years of experience helping C-suite leaders achieve deeper cohesion and alignment. As a Senior Advisor to McKinsey’s Aberkyn, she has led leadership retreats and culture alignment initiatives for global organizations. Her approach blends neuroscience, embodiment, and mindset work to foster lasting transformation. A recognized author, she has shared her insights through books and media appearances worldwide. Based in Singapore, she works with C-suite teams across Asia, Australia, and Europe.
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Roslina Chai
Roslina is a mediator, executive coach, and entrepreneur with over two decades of experience helping senior leaders navigate complex challenges and foster collaboration. Her multidisciplinary approach blends commercial, academic, and theatrical insights to create lasting leadership shifts. A certified gestalt leadership coach, she holds an Executive Doctorate in Business Administration from École des Ponts Business School. Based in Singapore, she partners with C-suite teams across Asia, Europe, and North America.
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Thierry de Panafieu
Thierry is a leadership coach and investor with over 30 years of experience helping companies navigate strategic transitions, fundraising, and scaling. As co-founder of Hera Capital and managing partner at Shift4Good, he has guided boards and executive teams to drive growth and performance. A certified integral coach, he offers practical insights shaped by his work across Europe, Asia, and the UK. Based in Singapore, he supports C-suite teams worldwide.
